
Mr Charisma
If you’ve ever met my son you very likely know that he’s a charmer. I’m not just saying that since I’m his Dad and a major contributor to his charm DNA, but that’s just the way he is. The boy is a people person. The Boy has got…what do the teenagers call it…swagger. Taking him to the supermarket is like shopping with a politician running for office. He says Hi to everyone, especially teenage girls who seem to gravitate to his ready smile as if he were a celebrity. Yeah, the ladies love cool Russ. The other day I was buying sandwiches at Subway where he immediately struck up a conversation with the cashier.
“Oh my goodness!” the cashier gushes, “He’s so cute!”
The Boy smiles, “Thank you!”
“Awwww,” she’s practically bending over the counter to see him. “What’s your name?”
“Russell.” He does a little dance for her. “I’m four!”
“Wow, you’re a big boy!”
“Yeah, I know…watch this…” He does a cartwheel just for her right in the store.
“Ohhh, that’s nice!” she says impressed.
I pay for the food and leave before he has a chance to ask her for her number. Like I said: swagger.
The Boy feels it’s his job to make people smile and it’s a job he takes seriously. So what’s the harm? The challenge with that is the Boy is an Equal Opportunity Mingler. He mingles freely with everyone…even if he doesn’t know them and there lies the problem. We’ve taught him about not talking to strangers but Mr. Charisma sometimes forgets. So the other night I read him a story called The Berenstain Bears Learn About Strangers. It does a good job of explaining in a kid friendly way why it’s dangerous to talk to strangers. As I’m reading the part where the character in the book is about to talk to a stranger my son interrupts.
“Daddy…”
“Yeah, Bud.”
“You know…I don’t talk to strangers.” He sounded a bit miffed that I could ever think he would do such a thing.
“You don’t?” I asked
“No,” he sighed heavily. “I talk to people.”
“Oh…I see…thanks for clearing that up for me.” I nodded.
“No problem.”
I put the Boy to bed and placed the book back on the shelf. Obviously a new strategy will be needed for Mr. Charisma.
by Dennis
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